Meet the Ministry Team

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Rebecca Nagy

Founding Minister

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Reverend Rebecca Nagy is an Award Winning, Non Denominational and Interfaith Wedding Officiant, officiating over 2700 weddings that reflect each couple’s individuality – their personalities, beliefs and relationship – for over 20 years.

Her weddings have been featured on The Today Show, in national and local publications and have won numerous awards including Martha Stewart Weddings via Weddingwire, The Knot and The BOW Award (Best of Wedding) that designated her as #1 Wedding Officiant by the Wedding and Event Industry.

Known for her open-minded approach to religion and spirituality and her easy-going manner, she captures every couple’s unique story and weaves it into their ceremony with both humor and poignancy. Because of this, she has earned the designation as “preferred vendor” on the lists of most wedding venues and with leading wedding professionals and venues in Charlotte including: Split Second Sound, Old South Studios, The Morehead Inn, St. Mary’s and Belk Chapels, The Great Aunt Stella Center, Ballantyne Resort and Ballantyne Country Club, The Ritz, The Omni, The Renaissance, Holiday Inn, Marriott, Stowe Botanical Gardens, The Peninsula Club and The Trump National – to name a few.

Having earned the designation of professional speaker with NSA (The National Speaker’s Association), Reverend Rebecca is the only officiant who has held a seat on the board of NACE (The National Association of Catering Executives), and has been a featured speaker at both of these organization’s National Conventions and Regional Retreats. Her expertise as a professional speaker makes her the most sought-after wedding officiant in the Southeast.

Reverend Rebecca spent the first 25 years of her career in the fashion industry, where she was a Fashion Director, Merchandiser, Designer and Divisional Merchandise Manager in Product Development for Divisions of Federated and May Co. Department Stores, Kmart International, and Belk Stores Services.

Rebecca is a graduate of The University of North Carolina-Greensboro, Sancta Sophia Seminary, and earned her ordination through The International Council of Community Churches in 1997. She has also served on the Board of Trustees of Light of Christ Community Church, Spiritual Directors International, and the Board of Governors of Sancta Sophia Seminary.

Reverend Rebecca is currently the Senior Minister and Spiritual Leader of The Spiritual Light Center of Charlotte, which also has a chapel that you can rent for a small wedding.

Reverend Hilarie Ann Cox
Rev. Hilarie Cox

Reverend Hilarie Cox

Senior Minister




Reverend Hilarie is an intuitive, light-hearted and joyful officiant.  She is a graduate of Gateway University and ordained in 2009.  She enjoys meeting couples and designing custom cermonies that tell their love story. In addition to doing weddings she offers pre-marital counseling, baptisms, home and business blessings, and spiritual counseling.  Hilarie’s life has taken her on many spiritual journeys from working as a corporate executive and computer programmer, wife, mother, student and minister.  Each moment in life has blessed her with opportunities to grow, learn and feed her soul.  Realizing every moment is an opportunity to be in service no matter what challenges or joys cross her path.  Officiating weddings brings joy to her heart to witness the love and celebration of uniting a couple in marriage.

Reverend Hilarie lives in Lake Wylie, SC with her husband Mike, her daughter Sabreena, their dogs Angel, Maddie and Rosie and most importantly Mr. Cat.  She enjoys reading, crafting, writing, programming, cooking, music, games and gardening.  Most free time on weekends is spent working on something with her husband Mike.  Hilarie is well known for her laugh and has been nicknamed Reverend Giggles.

Reverend Connie Baldwin

Reverend Constance (Connie) Baldwin

Senior Minister




Rev. Constance (Connie) Baldwin completed a two-year course of study with the University of Metaphysics, Sedona, California and graduated with a Bachelor of Metaphysical Science on August 30, 2009. At the time of her graduation, she was also ordained as a Metaphysical Minister and a Metaphysical Practitioner.

In 2014, after retiring from the corporate world as a Senior Property Manager with Spectrum Properties, Connie began officiating weddings with Reverend Rebecca Nagy’s Wedding Ministries. Connie enjoys working with couples in developing personalized ceremonies and to help make their special days perfect.

Connie is a long-time member of Spiritual Light Center of Charlotte where she is the Sunday Service Leader and serves as the Secretary of the Board of Trustees.

Connie appreciates that she is able to conduct services for all couples whether they are mixed cultures, same sex, non-religious, religious or a mixture of any or all mentioned. She believes that all couples wishing to marry can be married, and she looks forward to working with all who contact her.